How the love of my life and I struggle to keep our love strong

Friday, July 15, 2011

Faithfulness

Hello, friends!

I want to thank you all for the recommendations for the webcam applications. I'll try some of those options to see how they go.

Now, here's a question for all of you: if you were in a relationship and your boyfriend/girlfriend had to go on a trip for 6 months, do you think you'd be able to remain faithful?

My girlfriend and I see each other sporadically, so we have to trust each other in that regard. It is not difficult for me to be faithful because I love her and there's no other girl that I would like to be with. Luckily, this one aspect that a lot of people would struggle with is not a problem for us.

If you have been in this situation, how did it work for you? If you haven't been, what do you think you'd do?

25 comments:

  1. I don't think that I would be able to remain faithful to my girlfriend in that situation. There would be too much work to see each other and even then it would be through a computer. I would need more time together.

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  2. I'd try to avoid cheating, but I think what it really breaks down to for me is how long we've been going out. If it's just a few weeks then I think that I wouldn't be able to be faithful. However, if we've been dating for a few years, I'd try my best to not cheat.

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  3. I would, definitely. I'm newly (and happily) married though :)

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  4. I agree with Axis. I love my girlfriend and I'd be faithful of course

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  5. Well, there are some hard moments in all relationships, and this will be one.

    When my girlfriend went on holidays for 2 weeks, she found another one and we split. I hope you have better luck ;-)

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  6. Ithink it wont be easy but you can do this

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  7. I have not been in this kind of situation but I had a long distance relationship for over a year. Though I saw her over the weekends. She went to Japan for a full month and by that time we loved each other more then anything. The month past by like a train. I think you can manage 6 months if you truly love each other

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  8. Tried to remain true for a couple of years but it's nigh on impossible

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  9. Its tempting to just say it depends on the girl and the relationship, but I think generally the answer would be no, it is hard for most people.

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  10. Personally I myself would be able to remain faithful as it's not like girls are going to come jumping out at me as soon as my girlfriend disappears. And it's not like my whole life revolves around my girlfriend, I've got other things to keep myself busy ;)

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  11. Must be hard. I don't know if I could remain faithful..

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  12. yeah man don't be jealous ... it's the best thing you can do in a relationship

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  13. I'm way too nervous for such a thing. LD ships are too sinkable for me.

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  14. All you have to do is not be negative and don't doubt the other person. If that person is gonna cheat on you that's on them, atleast you know you stayed faithful. It would suck to be away from my gf for 6 months I know I wouldn't cheat.

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  15. I did that with my girlfriend when she went to France for 2 months. Let me tell you, it wasn't the easiest thing to do, but if you really love her then it shouldn't be too hard of a task. Followed.

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  16. I just don't believe in long distance relationships.

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  17. Oh yeah, I'll mos def. remain faithful, and so should you.
    Check out SOren Kierkegaard on faith :P

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  18. Well, it's funny that you've mentioned faithfulness...and your situation is basically mine.

    Only I've been in three long-distance relationships within my life.

    Now, I know it's hard to say they were all of 'em "successful," after all I've had THREE of 'em. But the latest is my Partner-In-Crime: we fell in love at first sight, but she was still living in California at the time and I was only visiting from Washington.

    God, like...three? Four months? Somethin' like four or five months of waiting and keeping communication, because both of us had just gotten out of a relationship and wanted to make sure we weren't just a bounce-back fling, y'know?

    Anyway, faithfulness has never been an issue with me because I'm just that stubborn. Plus I'm a horrible, intimidating kind of person: it takes a true saint to hang out with me, and a god/dess to love me.

    Suffice it to say, long-distance relationships can be a stress all their own, but don't forget that there HAS to be a light at the end of the tunnel, y'knowwhatImean? The whole point is to be with one another some day, and you have to keep that in mind. Whether it's one month or one year, you should set that goal and keep it in mind.

    And get yer endurance up. Long distance relationships also means an...er...explosive meeting should you both be pre-maritally promiscuous with one another. TRUST ME, get yer endurance up.

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  19. I've done this before, and it didn't work out- but that was because we were young and stupid.

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  20. As you said, the only thing that you really need is faith, and all will be fine ;)

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  21. Could i remain faithful? Honestly, it depends on the girl. I don't trust easily though so that would be my main issue.

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  22. Sure, do that your hearth say!

    and yes, i'm sure that can continue this relationship!

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  23. I hope things will going better to me, but before I left my work, i want to have a chance to get another better payed and not too slave as this,but the situation is hard...

    Thanks for your comment, you make my day !

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  24. Very tough decision. I don't know if Skyping would do it.

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