How the love of my life and I struggle to keep our love strong

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Confusion

Hello, friends.
Yesterday I was chatting with my girlfriend about the time we met. We were reading all emails and stuff like that. I thought it was very funny that when we started to get to know each other she always thought I had a girlfriend. She said she was very interested in me, but for some reason she was definitely sure that I was taken.
For instance, she asked me what I had planned for Valentine's day, trying to find out if I had a date, but Valentine's day is not really celebrated outside the US (at least not where I live), so she never got an answer. Confusions like this made it so that it took longer for her and I to get together.
I mean, I really liked her, but I had no signal that she was interested in me. I didn't want to tell her I liked her, because of the distance, the age difference, etc, but if I had had a clue that she liked me then I would've told her earlier. She gave me no signals because she thought I wouldn't be interested in her (why would I if I already had my woman?).
What I don't understand is why she never asked me straight away if I did have a girlfriend. She said she was trying to be conspicuous, haha.

Anyway, eventually I mentioned I didn't have a girlfriend and she told me that when she found out she was very happy that she may still have a chance with me. I really love her, so I'm happy that she was happy, haha.

That's all for now. I'll try to update every day. It will get to the point where I post regarding the problems of age difference, different spiritual views and long distance, but I feel you should get to know about us a little bit before I get into that.

22 comments:

  1. Hahaha, that's so usual in women... men don't have so many problems to ask if they are taken

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  2. Really a good read, do keep us updated!

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  3. Thats a nice story. I guess she didnt ask mainly for pride reasons. Who knows, i dont get my GF either hahahaha

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  4. yes..I I want to get to know you better before you give out more details. +1 Follow

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  5. Pulling for you man, good luck on the girl!

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  6. Age isn't something that matters too much, if you've got stuff in common. I'm 22 and my girlfriend of over a year is 46. The only problems we ever encounter is who gets to be player 1.

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  7. Such a cute story. The first thing I ever said to my ex was a cheesy pickup line. It was more of a prank, than anything, but we ended up talking and we dated for about half a year.

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  8. Enjoyed your post, keep it up

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  9. Heh women are hard to read, but that's what makes them awesome!

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  10. BE A MAN, dude!
    btw follow+

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  11. I'm in a long distance relationship, but we're about to go to college together, and the two years we've been long distance will finally pay off!!!

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  12. You're not the only one who doesn't understand their girlfriend!

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  13. Good luck! Hoping for the best

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  14. Sounds very nice, good luck. Followed.

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  15. Hmmm long distance relationships are always a matter of faith. I think one of the most important thing is 'live' the partner, often or maybe always the only way for a deep knowing. Mate before taking a decision check your inner part, the deepest one. Love and emotions aren't a game.

    Sorry for my bad English. hope you can still catch the point. Take care and good luck, wish you the best!
    Mauro.

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  16. This seems interesting, this all sounds like something similar to me. Im liking these posts they really catch my attention.

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  17. I'm sitting in a similar situation over the summer, it'll be better soon though!

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  18. This blog sounds really interesting. I myself am in a long distance relationship with a huge age difference. Can't wait to see more.

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  19. It's always good to establish parameters and go over status to begin with. This blog is cool, I shall follow you. Please check my blog out as well :).

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