How the love of my life and I struggle to keep our love strong

Sunday, August 21, 2011

Bad day

Hello, friends!

Sorry for not updating for a while, I'll try to be more constant.

The other day my girlfriend got online when I wasn't around and she sent me some pictures and she told me she had had an awful day. Her day had gotten very hectic with some errands she had to run and some people that complicated things (nothing serious now, but she was quite mad at the time). It made me feel awful that I couldn't be there for her when she needed me. Luckily she could get online again that night and we chatted for a bit; I only found out later that she had only gotten 3 hours of sleep. She kept that information from me because she knew that if I had known I would've forced her to go to sleep and she really wanted to chat with me.

It's very frustrating knowing that sometimes she needs me and not being able to be there for her. I really wish we were together already so I could help her when things get bad.

Sorry for the emoish post, but I'm feeling frustrated and I needed to vent a little. I promise a more cheerful post next time and I promise I won't let so many days happen between posts.

20 comments:

  1. These things happen man, the important thing is that even with the time difference you still can keep in touch, even if it does play havoc with your schedules!

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  2. Long distance relationships are always hard. Be happy you can talk to her, see some photos and share a little time. It could be worse :(

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  3. I was once dating a girl who moved to Europe..it was hard on us both...

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  4. Here's to hopin' it gets better!

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  5. Send her nudes, hopefully it will cheer her up ;)

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  6. Listen to GM, he's got a point.

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  7. Keep doing what you are doing. You can't always be exactly where she needs you when she needs you, if you were, then this blog would be pointless. Its all part of growing together and overcoming the obstacles you face.

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  8. I know what you mean, man. I have a girlfriend who's abroad in Switzerland for a year and I miss her like crazy and want to be with her every day. Stay strong and look forward to the future. It's all anyone in our position can do.

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  9. haahah please dont send nudes

    here's hoping things improve!

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  10. Hey bro, if you can't share with yer peoples online or off, who can you share it with?

    Besides, the whole "strangers in the night" thing sucks when it actually happens to you rather than someone else.

    Besides, remember what our mantra is: things get better in time, y'knowwhatI'msayin'?

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  11. A really very interesting read! I hope you keep updating us with more info!

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  12. Having a long distance relationship can be quite difficult. As long as you talk to her everyday if you can, also you should plan a surprise visit don't tell her anything. A surprise visit would probably mean the world to her!

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  13. Shit happens man, it sucks but I guess in a weird way it's just a test of your devotion. I hope everything works out and that your girlfriend's general situation improves!

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  14. I know exactly the feeling, been through it myself..

    "Bad day" reminds me of Daniel Powter:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gH476CxJxfg

    Love that song.

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  15. Sucks, I'm sure you'll see eachother soon =3

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  16. Keep on keeping on. Time is a painful gift, that you have to endure. Should help you expand on your creativity, though.

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  17. Dude, how do you force somebody to go to sleep? ;D

    And, don't worry, each and every boyfriend has been in this situation sometime. The thing is, we're overprotective. They are tough girls and they know how to take care of themselves.

    Following and supporting, mate! :)

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  18. must be tough to be in a long distance relationship. I wouldnt know.

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